Why it’s always the girls’ fault?!
Wah, 14 comments! Not bad for a start. J
Okay, some personal thoughts…
- Why is it that when a guy rapes a gal, the society will somehow automatically thinks that it is the gal’s fault. They will come out with all sorts of ideas to point their fingers at the gal like... “The girl shouldn’t have worn clothes that are too revealing, she brought this on herself!” or “The girl should know how to take care of herself, she shouldn’t this, she shouldn’t that, blah..blah..blah..” What about the guy?!?
- Why is it that when a guy with a smaller stature pairs up with a girl, who’s of a larger stature, comments will usually be made against the female counterpart. Such as “hmm, the girl’s too tall la..” or “The girl should seriously consider losing some weight!” Is this a fault of anyone in the first place?!?
- Why is it that when divorce occurs, the wife will usually be the one to blame? Well, you know, guys’ hearts are to be won, the wife should have learnt tips and ways to capture her husbands heart. She’s not doing enough to satisfy her husband’s needs. What??!! She doesn’t know how to cook? She doesn’t even do the chores? No wonder her husband gave up! No wonder la… Husbands have a fair share of honoring their wives, while their wives submit to them. Both are to love each other until the end, isn’t it?!?
True? So, did you go “Hmmm…” ?
thoughts by Lee Xe Hui @ 8:45 PM
4 Comments:
At 10:45 AM,
Mike Ng said…
Hmmm..somehow I have a different view from the stigmas that you've posted.
1. When I stumble upon a rape case in the newspaper, I never consider the factors that involve the victim. I dont think about what the person wore or the situation that the woman put herself in. The person did the deed and he's at fault. No question about it. That's why it's the accused that gets the punishment. But women do have a role in preventing such crimes to be committed.
2. This one's personal isnt it? Well as some of you know, I've been in the exact same situation in my previous relationship. The thing is you shouldnt be bothered about what people think. Your relationship is between the two of you and God. As long as you know what your relationship is made of, and keeping God in the center of it all, it's fine. Dont let people's judgement break you. Sticks and stones, girl.
3. Errr...the divorce thing, well. I didnt know that wives were the ones to be blamed. I'm really not in the position to comment about this, but one thing I can say is that wives do file for divorces too. Cheating husbands, maybe?
At 11:08 PM,
Leslie Yim said…
:) btw, we are not complaining bout our relationship and nobodys' has comments affected us in any way :p just so that the readers are clear :)
At 6:52 PM,
Lee Xe Hui said…
Ahaha...yeah leslie, you are right! :p Mike, there you have it. :) Just that, I did a survey and asked guys in my uni, they gave me that idea about guys. And, I'm glad you are not one of them :D
At 10:53 PM,
Danny Chen said…
1. guy rapes girl - guy's fault. punishment? castration.
2. girl bigger stature than guy... you talking about whom eh? ;) get the guy to be as big size as you mah! Problem solved! :)
3. divorce? why want to ask who's fault when its the children who suffers the most??? Sighs... divorce occurs when one partner decides to concentrate on me, myself and I, and not on the other party (like what jo said) and its something both men n women can do...
Eh, leslie n xe hui: NOBODY said you were complaining! hehehe...
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